Most people believe lasting love depends on finding the right person. Others believe it depends on hard work, compromise, or unwavering commitment. While each of those ideas contains some truth, they overlook a more fundamental reality. Lasting love is not simply about enduring hardship together. It is about remaining aligned with who you were created…
Every meaningful relationship requires effort, and most people readily accept that reality. We invest time, make sacrifices, improve our communication, read books, attend counseling, pray together, and strive to become more attentive partners. In other words, we’re willing to work for the relationship. What we often resist, however, is being worked on by the relationship.…
Most people grow up believing that love is the most important ingredient in a healthy relationship. Movies, songs, and popular culture reinforce the same message: if two people truly love each other, everything else will work itself out. Meanwhile, real life tells a different story. Many couples deeply love one another and still struggle with…