Most people believe lasting love depends on finding the right person. Others believe it depends on hard work, compromise, or unwavering commitment. While each of those ideas contains some truth, they overlook a more fundamental reality. Lasting love is not simply about enduring hardship together. It is about remaining aligned with who you were created…
Every meaningful relationship requires effort, and most people readily accept that reality. We invest time, make sacrifices, improve our communication, read books, attend counseling, pray together, and strive to become more attentive partners. In other words, we’re willing to work for the relationship. What we often resist, however, is being worked on by the relationship.…
For Immediate Release ATLANTA, GA — April 20, 2026 — At a time when relationship advice is widely accessible yet often fragmented, author and strategist Annette Purkiss introduces a more comprehensive model in her new book, Whole Relationships: How Imperfect People Create Unbroken Love, now available in print, digital, and audiobook formats. While many popular…
There are seasons when life feels full but not fulfilling. You’re doing what needs to be done, showing up where you’re expected, and checking the boxes that define responsibility. Yet something beneath the surface feels unsettled, as if your life is moving forward without you being fully present in it. That feeling is often described…
Reclaiming what actually sustains a relationship Somewhere along the way, love was given too much responsibility. We were taught that if love is strong enough, patient enough, deep enough, it will hold everything together. So we pursued love as the foundation, the glue, the answer, and when relationships began to fracture, we questioned the love.…
Search for “healthy relationships” and you will find lists. A relationship can check every visible box and still feel unstable beneath the surface. It can look calm but be built on avoidance. It can appear passionate but be fueled by anxiety. It can function well in public and quietly fracture in private. So, what actually…
Most people grow up believing that love is the most important ingredient in a healthy relationship. Movies, songs, and popular culture reinforce the same message: if two people truly love each other, everything else will work itself out. Meanwhile, real life tells a different story. Many couples deeply love one another and still struggle with…
Many people eventually notice a painful pattern in their relationships, repeating relationship patterns that emerge over time. Different partner.Different circumstances.Same emotional outcome. The arguments feel familiar. The disappointment echoes past experiences. Repeating relationship patterns may begin with hope, yet it ends in the same frustration or heartbreak. At some point, the question arises: Why do…